“Wow, writing a book isn’t easy”

by Angela - on January 18, 2012

You might think it’s weird that that would be music to my ears when a writing student or one of my clients says this to me. You might think that I should make the writing and getting published process “easy” for them. Well, you’d be wrong. You know that whole helping a butterfly out the crysallis state would actually weaken and damage the butterfly analogy? Yeah. That.

So when a client recently said “Wow, writing a [children's] book isn’t easy,” my heart skipped a beat and I caught my breath, I was so happy. A breakthrough! Few things that one might undertake just because they are “easy” are NOT certain to succeed (where succeeding means obtaining excellence). Of course, there is a difference between “easy” and “simple.” We’re all striving to simplify, and in fact, that’s one of the objects of the creative process…I never set out as an author or artist to complicate something, but to find the clearest (or you could say, “simplest”) way to express my message/communicate a solution to an unanswered question. Soooooooo, when there’s an acknowledgment that this process isn’t “easy” I think we are just getting on the right track.

When something’s not easy, we are not lazy. When something’s not easy, we are not on auto-pilot. When something’s not easy, we are ready to question, challenge and think through our discomfort. There just isn’t an “easy” way through the creative process or the writing process or the publishing process. There are effective ways, productive ways, simple ways. But it’s kinda like math in that certain truths can’t be invented or avoided in the creative process. It’s vital to trust the process, which means letting go of your preconceived ideas; if you’re willing to do that, then I have a secret for you–it actually is easy.

I was so happy to read Veronica Roth’s (author of the great YA dystopian read, Divergent) blog post “A peek behind the publishing curtain.” A very helpful look at the process behind traditionally published books (in short: it don’t happen overnight, yo!). While my process isn’t nearly as long with my Fifties Chix publisher (they’re not printing books overseas, for one example), I think it’s still a great outline for readers and aspiring writers to see, especially steps 1-12 that Veronica lists; and especially if they are dead set on getting published the old-fashioned way without checking out cool new ways like this. I love it when people ask when the next Fifties Chix book is coming out (Keeping Secrets…and the answer is within a few months), but it is so much more involved than just writing it–which can be a challenging process in itself.

I’m working on making some classes available on the Interwebs for those of you interested in writing and publishing. I hope I can help more people discover the process so they can be liberated from an obsession with easy and can move on to mastering the process (which can actually be simple). Be sure to be in touch if you’re interested in those classes or in consultation. You, too, can be a strong butterfly soaring to publication*

 

*Sorry for that terrible mixed metaphor.

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Love notes to myself

by Angela - on January 17, 2012

Generally, authors write what they want to read. At least, I do. And today I found I wrote something that I need. I think generally I’m a pretty forgiving person…it might not always be instantaneous, but I work through it and work it out. But this morning, I was torqued. I wanted to make a special trip to see someone who I felt was being intentionally jerky and share some well-chosen biting words at a high volume. It was hard to calm down (Don’t worry, I didn’t break or damage anything, just felt like it).

I did make an effort to calm myself, though, as I sat in my studio huffing and puffing. Everywhere I look, I see my buddy Petalwink in here and she happened to catch my eye from a framed picture near my desk. I think she was actually winking, which is weird, I know, but true. We had this little conversation:

ME: “Have you ever dealt with someone like this?”
PWINK: “Duh. You wrote the book.”
ME: “Oh, right; book 7. Belfry. He was pretty nasty.”
THE WINKSTER: “Yeah, and on purpose, too.”
ME: “You didn’t handle it well at first, as I recall.”
PETALDUB: *giggles*
ME: “I remember that you did what I’d really like to do right now which is take it into my own hands. But that wasn’t the answer.”
PW: *sighs knowingly*

At which point, I decided to pull up said story, Petalwink Makes Peace, in iBooks, and give it another read. I was awash in not only good memories of writing and illustrating the book, but remembering that what I write, I usually have to live (a “walk the talk” kind of thing). I loved being reminded that returning jerkiness for jerkiness is never the answer and that furthermore, the Golden Rule is always applicable.

I felt calmer after reading Petalwink’s story so when I came across this Bible verse, I managed to not totally rebel against it: “Who did hinder you that ye should not obey the truth?” (Gal. 5:7). It reminded me of the phrase my husband so often voices, “Be a thermostat, not a thermometer!” Which basically means that it doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing (how badly they might be behaving, for example), I can set the tone and do better if I know better instead of just registering the tone or atmosphere (temperature) and just going along with it.

So I’m grateful for that 7th Petalwink book which turned out to be a love letter to myself. The result is I haven’t done or said anything I’ll regret to this person who obviously needs a little more tender care than usual. I hope you are able to conquer the Belfrys in your life, too; and if you need a little help, feel free to have a chat with Petalwink. Sometimes it helps.

Belfry & Petalwink from "Petalwink Makes Peace" by me.

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Hey! It’s a giveaway!

January 11, 2012

Wander on over to Blkosiner’s Book Blog to see my latest interview…and enter to win a copy of Fifties Chix: Travel to Tomorrow (you’ll want to have read it because the second book in the Fifties Chix series, Keeping Secrets is coming out SOON!). Brandi says about Travel to Tomorrow, “The book has a bit [...]

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Review: True Colors by Kristin Hannah

January 5, 2012

True Colors by Kristin Hannah My rating: 5 of 5 stars I don’t have sisters (at least by blood), but reading about the Grey sisters (in a charming and appealing Pacific Northwest, small-town setting) in this novel made me feel like I did. I’ll admit that I was skeptical going in to read this book, [...]

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There’s no such thing as a bad review…

December 29, 2011

THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS A BAD REVIEW. Ha! I was just trying it on for size, you know, like “there’s no such thing as bad press” [articles about the children's author who got kicked off a Southwest flight for swearing comes blazing to mind]. I thought Tina Fey’s chapter in her book Bossypants on [...]

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Announcing the winner of the Fifties Chix Kindle Fire Giveaway!

December 21, 2011

Congratulations, Olivia and a big THANK YOU to everyone who participated! Stay tuned for a sneak peek at Fifties Chix book 2, Keeping Secrets. Happy holidays, happy reading…and much love!  

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Review of “The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks” by E. Lockhart

December 20, 2011

The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks by E. Lockhart My rating: 4 of 5 stars In the course of one measly summer, Frankie goes from invisible to…well, noticeable. She gets to figure out what she thinks of herself and how to navigate what others thinks of her at her [snooty] private school. I was impressed [...]

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Counting Down…

December 20, 2011

I am a list maker (if you didn’t already know this about me) and I also like to count down (“4 more days til Christmas!”) and up (“our ninth time watching New Girl!”). Soooo…I am loving today counting down the last several hours of the Fifties Chix Kindle Fire Giveaway (12/20/11, 11:59 pm). There’s still [...]

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Win a Kindle Fire in time for Christmas!

December 6, 2011

I’m so excited! Fifties Chix is doing yet another giveaway! And it’s a big ‘un. Find out how you can win a Kindle Fire in time for Christmas by clicking here (the winner will also get an autographed copy of Fifties Chix: Travel to Tomorrow sent to a charity of their choice). Best wishes!

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“Keeping Secrets”

November 30, 2011

My dog Daisy is extra clingy today…wonder what she knows that I don’t?! (Relevant to nothing, just posting that so if in the next few days, I have some whopper news, you’ll nod your head and go, “Yep, saw that coming because of the whole needy puppy incident.”) I’m soooo excited that we got word [...]

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